Abuela's Pantry #59

Intimacy isn't black and white, there's ways to be intimate without being sexual, there are so many ways to show your friends you love them.

Valentines Day tends to stick to the romantic and sexual side, but you can love something without needing to fuck it.

I love you and will never need to touch you, but I can play you music and tell you you're beautiful just like that grandparent you always wish you had.


  1. Go! by Plumtree on Predicts the Future (Cinnamon Toast Records)
  2. Eres Tú by Carla Morrison on Déjenme Llorar (Cosmica Records/Intolerancia Records)
  3. If You Find Yourself Caught in Love by Belle and Sebastian on Dear Catastrophe Waitress (Matador Records)
  4. yr heart by Hand Habits (saddle creek)
  5. Fool by frankie cosmos on Next Thing (Bayonet)
  6. Real Love by Big Thief on Masterpiece (Saddle Creek)
  7. Carnation by Yumi Zouma on Willowbank
  8. Plants by Crumb on Locket EP (Citrus City)
  9. Reminds Me of You by BOOSEGUMPS on heart peach (it takes time records)
  10. Our Love is Heavenly by Heavenly on Le Jardin De Heavenly (Sarah)
  11. I Love You More by The Softies on It’s Love (K Records)
  12. I Need Someone to Die For by Happy Go Lucky on trip & fall ep (luxery)
  13. Tonight? by Marine Girls on lazy ways (Cherry Red Records)
  14. Thru' Your Heart by The Pastels on Truckload of Trouble (seed)
  15. I Think I Love You by Waxahatchee on American Weekend (Don Giovanni)
  16. A Perfect Sonnet by Bright Eyes on Every Day and Every Night (Saddle Creek)
  17. Boyfriend by The Goon Sax on Up for Anything (Chapter Music)
  18. Bésame Mucho by Inspector on Inspector (Fonarte Latino)
  19. drunk text romance by CBMC on outdoor activities (self-released)
  20. It Hurts Until It Doesn't by Mothers on When You Walk A Long Distance You Are Tired (Grand Jury)
  21. Vacation by Florist on Holdly (Florist)
  22. Kiss Me by Sixpence None the Richer on Sixpence None the Richer (Squint Entertainment)
  23. Everything With You by Pains of Being Pure at Heart on The Pains of Being Pure at Heart (Slumberland Records)
  24. Could I by The Softies on It’s Love (K Records)
  25. Can We Kiss? by Calvin Johnson on What Was Me (k records)
  26. Kiss Your Lips by Allo Darlin' on Allo Darlin' (Fortuna POP!)
  27. why baby by the aislers set on Terrible Things Happen (Slumberland)
  28. all she cares about is mariachi by Magnetic Fields on Love at the Bottom of the Sea (Merge)
  29. If You Should Try To Kiss Her by Dressy Bessy on Pink Hearts Yellow Moons (Kindercore Records)
  30. Can't Stop by Babaganouj (Self-released)
  31. less than perfect by the spook school on could it be different? (slumberland)
  32. Is It Love by The Creases on Tremolow (Liberation Records)
  33. Heart For Brains by Roar on I Can't Handle Change (Felt Forest Records)
  34. TV Dreams by Katie Ellen on Cowboy Blues (Lauren Records)
  35. Alley Cat by Benny The Jet Rodriguez on Home. Run (Recess Records)
  36. Picturesong ft Dev Hynes by Girlpool on Picturesong (Anti Records)
  37. a loving feeling by Mitski on Puberty 2 (Dead Oceans)
  38. I Will Follow You Into The Dark by Death Cab For Cutie on Plans (Sub Pop)
  39. My Favorite Accident by Motion City Soundtrack on I Am The Movie (Epitaph)